The Reluctant Messenger Blog

  What’s real? What’s imaginary? My training had taught me to distinguish between the two. For most people, “real” and “imaginary” are mutually exclusive events, existing on parallel paths. For healthy and balanced people, those lines don’t cross. If they did, well, my phone would start ringing. As a psychologist, I was assumed to be the expert on reality. After all, I had been trained to distinguish between an active imagination versus those deep, dark musings of the thought-disordered world of psychoses.  All that changed on August 28, 2013, the day the world of the nonphysical crossed the threshold into my normal existence. I would never be the same. As my belief system crumbled beneath me, it made room for a grander view, a new perspective; my Truth shifted. Having dipped my toes in the reality of cosmic consciousness, I now exist in a different world. I straddle dimensions with one foot grounded in 3-D life while the other anchors me in the beautiful, often-mystical, realms of wha

  What is the fabric of your life? What threads build your foundation? We are the master weavers of our lives, and we choose which strands to pick up and which ones to snip. These decisions influence the final weave, the pattern that defines who we are.   Let’s weave hope and truth through the tapestry of our lives.

  Who are we? Really, think about that question: Who are we?   As Bob Monroe (Monroe Institute) always said, we are more than our physical bodies. This is so true.  Our true nature lies not within our physicality but in that immeasurable dimension that surrounds us--that field of energy that connects us to all that is.    The picture above is a quote is from the Messengers, heralding a new awakening of consciousness. As we awaken to our true nature, as we learn to live from our heart space, we will begin to understand the unity of all that is.   What we do to others affects us. As we greet others with a kind word, that kindness spreads. As the heart of our great planet evolves, will we open to the message that we are all one? Will we allow goodness and kindness into our lives?    The choice is ours. Choose wisely.

Click READ MORE to launch the video. Evolution, it's a given. We are constantly changing and with each major change, we undergo a reset. Similar to uploading a new operating system on a computer, it often takes time for the reboot to become functional. We need time to adapt, to adjust. Our biggest evolution, however, occurs when we transition beyond the physical.

I posted this e-card on my social media with this accompanying message: “If distance or health prevents you from being with family or friends, let your memories bring you back to times of joy and happiness.” UNEXPECTED HOLIDAY GIFTS By Candice M. Sanderson   T his was new for me, and I wasn’t very happy about it. For the first time in my life, I would not spend my birthday (December 21), Christmas Eve, or Christmas Day with my family. Although very cautious and following all recommended medical guidelines, my daughter and her youngest contracted covid. The thoughts of Cassie and Shalane being sick added fuel to those holiday blues that creep in my direction this time of year. Unable to be with my daughter and her family, the highlight of my quiet birthday was going to bed early. The next day, I helped Cassie by making stops at the grocery and buying last-minute gifts from several department stores. I unloaded the bags and carefully placed them on Cassie’s front porch, then dutifully wa

Click READ MORE to launch the video. Today marks another trip around the sun for me. I can't think of a better way to celebrate than releasing the final chapter in The Reluctant Messenger Unleashed: In the Beginning. A big thank you to Donna Rebadow​ for her guidance, friendship, and wisdom! Love you, Donna!